Saturday, January 17, 2009

Calming Scents-Body Care Products by Dawn!

Here it is-the onset of my new little venture! Body Spritzs begin the show--8 oz of Spritz for $6.50 a bottle! There are 0 chemicals in this--hence no color...but the fragrance is awesome--Essential Oils are used for the Scents!
These next little gems are my Foot Fizzies. These are best used in the foot tubs, 2-3 per foot bath. Fragrances are Spearmint-Peppermint--or Eucalyptus, or a combination of Eucalyptus and Lemon. These sell for $6.00 a container.
My favorite Bath Soaks! Called Bath Bombs-Bath Fizzies...I am calling em Bath Soaks! Why? Because thats exactly the best way to use these. 1 per Soak and its enough. They are made with Sweet Almond Oil, Shea Butter, Epson Salt, Cornstarch, Baking Soda, Citric Acid and a Scent. The Scents I have available now are Sweet Orange, Jasmine (this is DIVINE), Rose, Lavendar, Eucalyptus, Tranquility, and please check for my list of Scents which I will post Below! These sell for $3.50 per Bath Soak
This is also one my favorites! Lip Balms in a neat little carrying packet of a Seashell! How cute is that? These are made with Shea butter, Jojoba Oil, Vitamin E, Sweet Almond Oil & Beeswax. The scents I have available right now are Spearmint, Vanilla Vanilla, and Sweet Orange. I will be adding to these as we go along. Be good to your lips--Shea Butter is awesome for anti-aging, and moisturizing. Price $3.00
And to end my little show...Bath Salts. These are made with Fine Sea Salts and Essential Oils, Vitamin E and Sweet Almond Oil..just a tad of this. Its mainly used again for Soaking and Relaxing yourself. I however have been using mine for everyday washing and I havent noticed a problem with my skin. These also have Epson Salts in them. You cant beat this for pampering our skin either! These sell for $8.50 an 8 oz jar. The Scents I have in these are Soothing, Sweet Dreams, and Energize. The Essential Oils used for these Scents will be a mixture of Oils to promote Soothing and Healing, Relaxing at the end of the day--Scents to promote a feeling of Creation and Excitement in being alive!

I will be making Massage Oils and those will be available next week--I will add those Scents at that time. My goal is to continue learning and creating products that are good for us--promote Relaxation and Pampering and Self-Love. All my life-I've been on the quest for Serenity and this is a way for me to express that and incorporate into my everyday life. I hope to share this with everyone else who want it--as well as products that are not full of chemicals. Anyone interested in anything just contact me by email--Dawn53094@yahoo.com. For purchases $25.00 and up--I include a Spa Duck--because every woman enjoying a soak needs alittle cutey companion! I will also include some samples of products that dont look well--but have all the right ingrediants--these are just things I've flopped while making!

Friday, January 16, 2009

Attention all my Blog Followers

Unfortunately you may be drawn into my birth family's sick and disturbing harassment. They attempted to comment on my blog and since I blocked them they are now choosing to email the blog list. Please forward all these emails and comments. I will be taking those to our attorney and see what legal charges can be pressed for this harassment. I'm sorry you are being drawn into this and hopefully this will end soon, my wish is that legally they will face some criminal charges. Again, I apologize for anyone being drawn into this!

P.S. I did not forget the drawing, I will do it tomorrow--between all my computer problems and me trying to launch my body care business, I've had no time to breathe!

Did I really hear this?

Last night on TV which I rarely watch...but hey Baldyman was gone and its -40 below zero..anyhow..I'm sittin on the couch with Genie watching Lifetime--(she's farting up a storm) and I see this commercial come on. New Charmin Ultra Soft--the tag line???

Fewer pieces left behind!!!! OMG--did I really hear that??? YEP--I sure did..I started laughing my butt off. I mean picture that...fewer pieces left behind. Who thought of that..and what an EUUUU thought. If you havent seen it yet-I'm sure you will. Soo, the next time your in the Supermarket shopping for necessities, pick up a package of this. After all, it will mean fewer pieces left behind, or fewer pieces left in the behind! EUUUUUUUUUU but LOL!

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Dont let it fool ya!

It might look nice out here but its NOT! This is a picture i snapped about 730 this morning. Sun was just peeking out and it looks really nice out.
The temps today on the way to work were -11. Add the wind chills to that-and we are talking close to 40 below zero. All the schools are closed..many businesses to. I made it in and thru the day but i tell ya--its bone chillin. You can only be out for a few minutes and you can feel the pain of the temps. We have one more day of this--tonight is suppossed to be the worst of it. They say by noon tomorrow it should begin to warm up....lucky us we may see 7 or 8! Grab your shorts and sun bonnet and head on over! I'll light up the grill....

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

A Virus!!!

My computer is NOT right...add that on top of the mess I have from not being able to change the background--lol. I do think I have some sort of virus..but so far its not detecting it. If I'm not around for awhile--its because my computer is on the fritz! Hopefully Baldyman will be able to figure this out tonight--I am pretty good at removing viruses but nothing is getting picked up to remove as of yet.

Just Because

Just because I like this picture. No other reason. Its snowing here today, its below zero--and going to get colder yet. This is how many of Thomas Kinkaid's paintings look and I absolutely love them. I wish the snow was animated in this picture but I dont know how to do that. To me, this is how I would hope my home looks on a cold winter night.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Cutest Blog on the Block?

I've noticed they've had major problems with their site the last several days. They did the design on my blog. I was told I could change the background easy enough on my own. I requested help before I attempted to change it--didnt get much of a response and so I tried on my own...and here i sit with a mess! I've been trying to contact them--no answer. I see their site is still down. If anyone can help me with fixing some of this--please let me know. I lost my signature--my background. I did restore the 3 column template. I cannot get a background on here for the life of me. If i dont get help from them soon--I guess I will be looking for a new blog designer!

Your time?

This topic for Thinking Girl Tuesday is kinda weird, BUT its a biggie with me and I"m just wondering if this is important to other women, or do I swim pretty much alone in this boat.
I grew up in a large family-8 brothers and sisters. I was always surrounded by people, always in a crowd. We had 5 children, again--always a busy hectic household. Thru all this, even when I was a young girl, I valued and craved and NEEDED my quiet time. It never bothered me to be alone. I like it. That is one of the ways I found i restore myself.
My husband is self-employed. In other words, he is home alot. He claims he isnt..but I think he is. 2 years ago he bought a new computer because he said the one I was using was ancient, slow and he was tired of seeing me frustrated with it. So he comes home with this new computer for what he said was my birthday present. Now mind you, Baldyman is kinda like me,,cheap. He dosnt buy expensive gifts for anyone! Well, he would buy expensive for his kids before me--lol.
I should have known there was an ulterior motive--but I didnt pick up on it. So here I am thinking and feeling kinda guilty because he bought me a computer. Anyhow,,,I notice, more and more-HE is on the computer. He slowly and quietly and eventually had all his business stuff transferred onto "my" computer. As of today--its entirely on the computer and he probably uses it more than i do now! AND...he's home alot. Somedays I actually have to call him to see if he's gone because I want to come home, and have some quiet time or hope to have some...AND be able to use "my" computer. Actually, I do that alot! I call him--and I tell you most times--he is at home. Now, I like the fact that he can let Genie out when I cant...but I'm getting awfully frustrated that its almost appearing if he's retired without telling me!
I read so many blogs where I see women will say how much they love their husband--still googly eyes after all these years....Okk I get that...but tell me does your husband actually LEAVE the house for awhile? Do you get to cook alone, bake, listen to your music, enjoy the scents of candles instead of burps and farts???? Now thats a biggie for me...we have 2 bathrooms--one at each end of the house. He will use each bathroom--right after the other--its almost like he starts in one and finishes in the other so that the entire house smells like crap! I'm not kidding--this is what this man does!
I told him yesterday--I dont know how much more i can take and I said it on a serious note-he thinks I'm not. I'm seriously considering buying a container potty and placing it in the basement and making him go down there. It would be worth paying someone to empty it once a month and have my house not smelling like butt all day.

Ok I dont know how I got onto to that topic--but probably because he's home to much. The thought I'm trying to get across is, I miss my ME time, I miss having a quiet home to restore my soul, I miss using my own computer NOT full of business crap that I think slowed it down and he swears its not his stuff but my stuff. Are any of you able to enjoy "me" time each day...or how often, or do you even need it? I cant imagine loving someone so much that you never need a break from them. I tell Baldyman--give me a CHANCE to miss you! I dont know--this is my thinking girl topic for today....I thrive on being alone and having some quiet. I'm just curious on how other women feel or even men. Is it something you value, or need, or could care less about. I'm very curious to find out!

P.S.--I am on the lookout for a small desk for my bedroom window--AND a very inexpensive laptop so that for real I have my own computer!

Monday, January 12, 2009

January Giveaway!

Ok here is my Giveaway for January! There is a Valentines Dish Towel, Serenity Rock, Calming Tea, a Coaster that gives off a scent when your coffee or tea is placed on it, a little Journal, and a bookmark! I will also throw in a Bath Fizzie in Rose Scent and another one of my fizzies for Cold and Flu Season! All you have to do is place a comment on this post! On Friday I will draw a name and ship it out. January can be a "blah" month for all of us so lets get something going to give us a little cheer and break from the wintertime blues! Heres off to a new Week! Comment away!

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Last Nights Full Moon!

Did anyone else get a chance to get outside and see how big and bright it was? I thought it was gorgeous. Baldyman went and took these pictures for me so I could post them for those who missed it. It was the biggest and brightest moon of 2009 they say. It was so light out there--you almost could have sat outside and read the paper.

I went to bed and opened our bedroom curtains beacause it was so pretty. I could see the bird feeders from the bed, all the tree branches..I should have taken a picture of that also. Every time there is something going on in our skies, me and Baldyman will usually stay up late or get up in the middle of the night to check things out. We've sat on our deck many a nights watching for shooting stars, planets etc.

Its Sunday, I'm going to spend the day being a homebody, I hope everyone has a great day. This week brings us a deep freeze. It will be interesting to see just how cold we actually get!

Saturday, January 10, 2009

How cold is it?

Can anyone guess what this is????? I think this stuff is so funny during this time of year. Me and Baldyman have a hot tub right off of our patio doors. You dont have to walk but maybe 10 steps to get into the tub. At this time of year though--we have alot of ice on our deck so we lay towels down so we dont slip. When we get out of the tub and walk back in the house...most times we're running to get dressed we forget to grab the towel we stepped on. Sooooo, here it is in all its frozen glory! Have you ever seen frozen underwear or frozen shorts? Its the funniest sight..they just freeze in the position you leave em in. Sooo, here is our towel Baldy brought in last night. It had to sit on top of the washer for awhile until it thawed out. Maybe I"ll get brave and do a bra or underwear---lol

Friday, January 9, 2009

Rose Scented Bath Fizzies

Here they are! This is my final product, they include Kaolin Clay, Rose Scented Essential Oil, Epson Salts, Sweet Almond Oil, all kinds of natural ingrediants that are good for our skin. They have a real slight soft Rose fragrance. I'm going to make a bunch more of them for my upcoming presentation at work. My plan is to set up a little body care boutique and see how it goes. I think they look really good. Once you get the feel for it, its easy as heck to make them.

This Valentines Towel is going to be included in my Giveaway. I will be doing a post on that on Monday. Also included in that giveaway will be some samples of my new body stuff.

Its Friday, I dont know what I"m doing this weekend other than making my body stuff and hanging at home. We are heading into a deep freeze, gonna see wind chills of 30-40 below. I"m so not looking forward to that. In fact its scary. Cars dont run right and transporting children in this weather is quite scary to me. I havent quite figured out why in the summer we dont see above normal temperatures that often but yet in winter--we get these darn deep freezes every other week! If your cold like we are--stay warm! If your in a warm climate--Your one lucky duck!

Thursday, January 8, 2009

2 Awards and a Possible Name!

Look at this! I have been awarded 2 awards, (that means I didnt have to thief)! I love it....now the embarassing part is, that I saved the awards and didnt jot down who gave em to me....(did i even admit that) but yes folks that is what I did. I'm tellin ya the work week for me is insane. I dont breathe from the minute I walk out this door and my head is truly up my butt. Sooo, I have to go dig and find out who gave these to me so I can thank them.

Okkk now for the 2nd part of my post...I may have a name, I may not, please continue offering your words of suggestion. I thought of a funny tidbit in the wee hours this morning during my bout of insomnia. I'm so bad with names--this will help you realize just how bad I am. When my twins were born, they were girls after 3 boys. I had names picked out kinda in my head,,,Tina and Tara. Well, Elisa came out and she was HUGE! She was over 8lbs which for a twin is very big. She had the fattest face..and I looked at her and said well she dosnt look like a Tina thats for sure. Then Tara comes along and she was sooo tiny to me--6 lbs...my tiniest baby.. I had big babies i'm tellin ya! I thought--yep--Tara is her alright, so she was named. Elisa wasnt named...she was placed in her little bassinet and wheeled away as Baby Demet. She sat that way for 4 days! Neither Baldy or i could think of a name. On the 4th day we were due to go home. Nurses called me and said Look you have to name your daughter before you leave. I said I know but I still dont know what to name her! They ran me up a hospital baby book and I leafed thru it and saw the name Elisa ( we pronounce it Allysa) and i kept saying Elisa, then Elisa Ann...and I knew! I called Baldyman and i said I have a name! He says--what--I told him and he says--Thats it! Your right--so there she was named on the very last day of her hospital day...only because they wouldnt release us with an unamed baby! So there you have it-I couldnt even name my own child. But...here goes..tell me what you think and please leave me more ideas! Calming Scents --Body Care Products by Dawn. Thats what I got so far, I keep trying to stay focused on the calm, serenity thing and the scents thing just because once I learn more I can customize them for what folks are looking for.

Now I gotta go dig up who gave me these awards before they stop blogging with me!

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Thoughts for an Acquaintance

I didnt know this person personally, only thru someone close to me. About a year ago, this woman was diagnosed with brain cancer..terminal. She has adult children plus one still at home--and a husband. A husband that made it very obvious he didnt love her. Not only did he not love her--he must have really disliked her, despised her. Thruout the last year of her illness her sisters and extended birth family have taken care of her. They have fought all the battles she needed fought. It was good she had them, she was never left alone to fight her disease. BUT...thru being ill and fighting to try to win this cancer...she had a partner that was so cruel to her. So cruel. I want to know how does one try and fight a deadly battle when your sad, angry, broken hearted? Surely that had to mess with her immune system and her strength. Not only did he not help take care of her,,,he verbally let it be known he didnt want to, didnt want to be around her. He complained when her sisters used pillows in the house to make her more comfortable---Those were HIS pillows. Sorry fellow bloggers, but the only word that comes to my mind right now--is what a useless F!

I was going to post about my business today but I got to thinking about this after reading Tootsies comment...because it triggered in me--when we have spouses that are not treating us well. Now dont misunderstand what I'm trying to say--i know at times all our mates have been morons--I know I have...I'm talking about those of us who would ever have had the very sad experience of maybe spending time in our lives with someone who truly cannot stand us. Thru all Baldymans bad behaviors-I can honestly say--that man would DIE taking care of me or his children--I always knew no matter how badly he behaved, he loved us with all his heart. Anyhow, i heard yesterday this lady was about an hour away from leaving this earth. I called Baldyman and he said--Can you imagine how sad she had to be? She is leaving her knowing--her husband couldnt stand her...she had to have had a really broken heart. I just felt so bad for her...I cannot imagine the depths of sadness she had to feel at times. Thank God she had a small army of loving sisters, neices, children, friends to care for her....that is awesome. But still..her life partner had to to make this last years battle so hard for her. It literally breaks ones heart. I hope she is at peace now and that her family is at peace, because they've had one hell of a year caring for her and loving her. I do know God will take care of the creep--who at one point in his life--committed to loving this woman thru sickness and death....he didnt honor his words to her or God. I cannot imagine ever doing this. For those of us--who have a loving partner--think today on how good you must feel inside knowing if we were to be diagnosed with something fatal--how our partners would make our time here good and loving...and if sadly anyone has a partner that they think wouldnt---think quickly about fastly removing them from your lives. You never know when our time will come...this lady sure had no idea she was going to get diagnosed with a brain cancer that would take her in a year. She was only in her early 50's and living a very full busy life. Life happens that way--my heart is very sad for her today. I just pray she has found love and peace, thru her family and God.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

The Blame Game

Todays thoughts are on the Blaming game..I need to take my mind off a name for my body care business before I fall over. You guys got me going though!

Anyhow, I'm sure every one of us knows something that for some "odd" reason always is in a crisis mode. Something is always wrong, there is major drama going on, things are chaotic, AND its NOT ever caused by some poor choice they made or some poor thing they did. Its ALWAYS caused by another. Does that NOT drive you nuts?

I see it in my work almost daily, I grew up in it--I married it. I remember my husbands mother used to say--There's just a black cloud that follows you and Greg around..you poor kids. Well, it took me a few years to figure it out--but there was no black cloud--it was GREG! He made alot of poor choices--bad decisions, lived a lifestyle that wasnt appropiate for a family....now what do you think is going to happen? Do you think our life would be easy--fun, un eventful, full of peace and joy???? NOPE...when you live a chaotic lifestyle, you will be in constant drama--constant anxiety, constant stress. The key to getting out of it--is to learn it really is all about YOU and what your doing. I used to tell Baldyman, I'm using all this energy and life of mine to deal with things that are preventable in life...when unpreventable happens to me--I wont have any energy left. Do you know how scary that was to me? I kept thinking--what if a child of mine gets very ill---dies, or I got sick--or he did? I wouldnt have had the coping skills back then--all my energy went into dealing with his everyday insane decisions. Today at 50, I still see how i lack energy or things that happen---I see myself clam up and pull away.

Now, when I deal with this thru my job or my adult children--or family members I come right out and tell them---If you want things to change--YOU have to be the one who changes. You cannot blame the world--the economy, your spouse, whatever, the change and ending of the blaming game--starts with you! I learned by doing it. I stopped blaming my spouse, his parents--his choices,,I just got up and did what I needed to do--to get the life I needed to live for me and my children. We can blame all we want--but at the end of the day nothing will be different. A lady I work with--not to long ago told me after a court hearing--She wants us in her life--that way she has someone to blame! I was like--WOW--I hadnt thought about that way for this particular client--but she was dead on. This person, takes 0 accountability for anything in her life 0--yet all around her because of decisions she makes or dosnt make--her life is falling apart.

Sometimes I think to try and save someone a few years of their life--you just need to come right out and tell them how it is. Dont beat around the bush--just lay it on the line. It may not change a thing--but thats ok. I feel if you've done your part in sharing with them why things are the way they are--its up to them to learn from that. If they dont want to--then can sit in their boiling pot alone. I'm practicing that more and more in my job--just laying it out there. Dont waste my time trying to convince me its everyone's fault your in this crappy place in life...accept the decisions YOU'VE made or not made and look at yourself first.

If you know someone like this--dont let them waste one more minute of your precious day--lay it on the line--we could all wake up every day and blame someone or something for what happens--but for some of us--we've chosen to take accountability for the quality of life we live, and we step up and make changes when something interferes with that. People wont move forward until they can accept their part in where they are at...so you really are helping them but not letting them play the blame game. Most of us truly want to help---so think of it that way...Go help someone today!

Monday, January 5, 2009

HELPPPPP!!!

I NEED HELP! I"m not the most creative person on this earth---I"m so lost! I've got pretty much everything I need to begin making the body scrubs, spritzs, fizzies, that i want to make..for both men and women! I finally got my containers today. I got the recipes down pat. I've written a couple people to help design my web business....BUTTT and this is a HUGE but....I dont have a name for my little business. I'm at such a loss here. I was going to use Dawnie's Delish and i love that name but its more for food..not body care.

If i leave a few ideas here on what I want to focus on--I'm hoping someone will be able to drop a few ideas for me. Here is my main focus--peace, serenity, calm, self care, personalized scents..etc. I want for us to be able to feel pampered, rested, gentle smelling, and best of all--all natural! I've seen so many names like Serenity--so I dont want that--but anyhow--hopefully you get the idea.

HELP!!!

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Welcome my cousin Rose to blogging!

Help me welcome my cousin Rose to the world of blogging! I help set her up last night when she was visiting us over the weekend. She lives about 2 hours away from me. You can visit her HERE and hopefully she will find the enjoyment we all have from our blogging buddies!

Christmas Decorations are DOWN!

I felt really sad putting it all away...house is all cleaned up--no more pretty lights, no more whimsical things to look at and smile. All the pretties tucked away for one more year. Each year i notice it gets harder and harder for me to put it all away. Its almost like as we put things away--we also know we are putting away the extra good moods people are in this time of year, the goodwill thoughts of men, the hope and excitement of everyone...all that gets put away in the boxes also. We find ourselves now thinking about getting thru a couple more months of rough weather, tax season, and the longing for our bodies to feel the warmth of the sun once again. January can be a pretty gloomy month.

I've put out the few Valentines Things I have--but it dosnt help much. I'm going to have to find some ways to give myself some cheer to get thru to Febuary...that month for me is much better. The days are longer--sometimes warmer and we find outselves trudging thru the stores to check out the newest garden gadgets, yard ornaments, deck items...at least we have that to get thru Febuary!

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Winter Project

Thomas Kinkaide puzzles, i love em! 1000 piece puzzles, alittle crazy I know but for some reason I find myself doing these each winter. Last winter I completed 3 of them...the very last one, was missing 1 piece. I was so frustrated after all that hard work so I tossed it. The other 2 I'm going to put that permanent glue on and then find a place to put them, I used to make puzzles when our kids were little and put them on their dresser tops. I doubt they would want Thomas Kinkaides though....even though they are quite stunning.
This fall I found myself searching out a perfect table to work on puzzles thruout the colder months. What I was doing was insane, Baldyman had a huge piece of whatever he could find around the house--I placed the puzzle pieces on that and carried it from dining table to underneath something when I needed the table. Now I found this perfect card table that when not holding a puzzle actually looks pretty neat in my office.

Do any of you have anything you like to spend time on in the colder months? Everytime someone comes over I tell em to pull up a chair and help me with this--of course most of them scatter like June bugs just like they do when i ask them to play Scrabble. There are a few though that will get mesmerized like I do...my daughter in law last winter was my house cleaner and one time I came home and found she had spent more time on the puzzle then cleaning!

I dont know if your a puzzle person or not--but if your looking for a past time that will capture your attention and pass these cold days--Walgreens has a nice selection of these puzzles. They come in a series so you can actually have a few of them. When your done, glue them and they do make nice coffee tabletops or dresser tops--or maybe a piece of furniture you have on a sunporch!

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Oatmeal Raisin Cookies

I made these tonight and I"m telling ya these are GOOD! I havent had a cookie this good in a LONGGGG TIME! Baldyman and I had a hard time stopping eating them and Genie LOVES cookies right out of the oven and even she was drooling as I pulled them out. If your looking for a little snack, thats pretty easy to make--here ya go!

1 Cup Butter Crisco Shortning
1 Cup Brown Sugar
1 Cup Sugar
2 Eggs
1 tsp Vanilla
1/1/2 Cups Flour
1 Tsp Baking Soda
3 Cups Oatmeal

I tossed in some Raisins and some pecans I had laying around. Bake at 350 and Grab yourself an Ice Cold Glass of Milk and Enjoy!